If you’re planning to propose or you’ve just said “yes”, you might be wondering — do we need proposal photos, engagement photos, or both?
While they’re often confused, proposal photography and engagement photography serve very different purposes. As an Auckland-based proposal and wedding photographer, I capture both — and here’s exactly how they differ and which one is right for you.
What Are Proposal Photos?
Proposal photography captures the exact moment the question is asked.
This type of session is:
– A complete surprise
– Unscripted and emotional
– Carefully planned behind the scenes
– Focused on real reactions
Proposal photos usually include:
– The moment you get down on one knee
– Your partner’s reaction
– Happy tears, laughter, and the “yes”
– Candid moments immediately after
Because proposals happen quickly, an experienced photographer is essential — someone who knows how to stay hidden and capture the moment without interrupting it.
What Are Engagement Photos?
Engagement photos are taken after the proposal and are planned together as a couple.
They are:
– Relaxed and intentional
– Lightly guided with posing
– Shot in a location you both choose
– Outfits are matched perfectly
– Focused on connection and storytelling
Engagement sessions are perfect for:
– Save-the-date cards
– Wedding websites
– Social media announcements
– Framed prints and albums
They’re about celebrating your engagement — not the surprise.
The Key Differences at a Glance
Proposal Photos
– Capture the surprise moment
– Unplanned reactions
– Photographer stays hidden
– Emotion-driven and candid
Engagement Photos
– Planned photo session
– Relaxed and posed moments
– Photographer interacts with you
– Style-focused and creative
Can You Do Both?
Absolutely — and many couples do.
A popular option is:
– Proposal photography to capture the big moment
– A short photo session immediately after
– A full engagement shoot on another day
This gives you the best of both worlds — the raw emotion of the proposal and the beautiful, polished images for your wedding journey.
Which One Is Right for You?
Choose proposal photography if:
– You’re planning a surprise proposal
– You want the moment documented forever
– You value real emotion over posed photos
Choose engagement photography if:
– You’re already engaged
– You want intentional, styled photos
– You’re preparing content for your wedding
Or choose both if you want a complete story.
Proposal & Engagement Photography in Auckland
New Zealand offers stunning backdrops — from beaches and vineyards to city views and private estates. Having a local photographer means:
– Better lighting and timing
– Location expertise
– Weather backup planning
– Seamless, stress-free experience
📸 Thinking about proposal or engagement photos?
I’d love to help you capture your story beautifully.
Proposal vs Engagement Photos: What’s the Difference?
